Friday, January 9, 2009

Boy, she is sweet

Social Information Processing Theory

1 message received.

2 messages received.

3 messages received.

….

..

.

1 missed call.

Hi… Pwidi txtm8?

Words of anticipation from an expecting someone from the other end the line as that person behind those series of numbers tries to make a surprising connection.

Hu u?

Well, I had my share of the ordeal too, and went a little something like this:

Fred: hi.

Toffie: hi.

F: uhm, pasenxa na ha? Pwede buh mkipgtxtm8? Bord kc aq eh. 

T: ok lng. Ikaw ung clasm8 ni nica?

F: yep ako nga. Ikaw ung friend nya?

T: opo haha. Classmates kc ksmi since 2nd yr. high school.

F: ah. Wat nga name mo? Aq nga pla c fred. 

T: Toffie po

F: sweet 

T: ganun? Haha

F: San ka pala nagskul?

T: SPC. Taga san kan pala?

F: Davao lng din eh. San ka nga pala nag’haiskul?

Oh my! It seems that she has lost interest in me. Nooo! Please! I don’t want to start up all over again.

T: NDMU. senxa na, l8 repz, nkatulog kasi ako sa byahe galling gensan. Nkapunta ka na dun?

F: ah, dumadaan lng kmi dun sa mga malalayo na relatives pag pumupunta kming lake sebu.

T: Lake sebu?

F: ahuh. Me farm kasi kmi dun ng tilapia eh.

T: really? Penge tilapia, hahaha. Madalas ka dun? Di pa kc aq nkapunta dun.

F: lately, hndi na. kasi busy na eh. Budlay2 gid bala magmakadto pa mi damu ko sang dapat ubrahon sa amon.

T: haha. Kabalo ka gale magillonggo. Budlay ah naghalin pa mi sa Davao kag nag lagaw sa Gen san.

F: ah, hehe. Nga pala, an0ng course mo sa spc?

T: Nursing. Ano nga course nto ni cani?

F: kmusta ang bsn ? ah kmi, BS Molecular Biology man. Hahahaha di ah, BA Communication Arts

T: aus lng ang nursing, stress, pagod. Pero enjoy man ah. Hahaha sunggo man ung una ui.

F: nga pala, close kau ni cacai?

T: close man. Ksama ko sa SSG, ksabay mag’lunch, mga ganun gud.

F: ah lingaw ang mg’ssg no?

T: ikaw din?

F: opo. Haha

T: lingaw. Apir!

F: cguro honor student ka nung high skul no?

T: yep. Ikaw din ba?

F: opo. Haha. Cguro din, valedictorian ka?

T: haha hndi ah. Ikaw?

F: lalong hndi. 2nd honorable lng.

T: lng? Mataas na din un ha.

F: ey, ano nga pala pwede itawag sau? Toffee, toff, ffie, your sweetness?

T: toff na lng para one syllable.

F: hmmmn, bkit kaya toffee? Cguro sweet kang tao ano?

T: ewan ko ba. Cguro. Anlayo nga sa Kristianne Angela eh.

F: ah. Lingawa ng name mo ui. Toffee. Sweet. Hahah

T: bkit? Fred ka lang tlaga?

F: Frederick po.

T: Lingaw man din ang Frederick

F: kmusta life nain jan ngaun?

T: ok lng naman.

F: eh lovlyf?

T: NBSB po ako.

F: talaga? Bkit?

T: mas happy kasi ung single., ikaw, d ka pa nagkagf?

F: ah, wala akong gf ngaun eh,, mahina kasi ako sa mga ganyang bagay. Mahiyain kc aq eh, sbi nila, torpe daw.

T: ok nman ung ganun ah.

F: talaga? Haha bakit mo nasabi.

T: para sa akin, turn off kasi ang maangas.

F: ui, baka nakakadisturb na ako sau. Ano nga pl gnagawa mo now?

T: ah. Nagttxt at ngsusurf sa net. Me friendster ka?

F: meron. emailni.fred@yahoo.com

T: cge, I’add kta.

F: ui, cge, mamya n lng ako mgttxt ksi nga nagnenet ka pa.

T: na add na kta. Cge slamat sa concern. Tyl.

F: gudnyt. Tyl.

And that was basically it. Well, the texting frenzy went on for days. I found her interesting based solely on the information and verbal cues that she disclosed on me that night. CMC or Computer Mediated Communication aided us to become friends and I am happy to have another one. Verbal Cues are actually selected in this type of communication. Thus, one may think of and edit those words to avoid the other party from being offended. This, compared to face to face communication is more plausible as the latter simultaneous.

Because of the extended time, we were able to reply to each other at our most convenient time. Also, we were able to know each other in same quality as to face to face communication, though only in a longer time.

I enjoyed the experience. I had a new friend and boy, she is sweet.

4 comments:

reie (o^-^o) said...

2nd honorable lang???????!! paki-explain fred... (>_<) ni hindi ako nakatungtong kahit man lang sa last sa "honorable"s..

pero anyway, yup. it's true that there's a certain creepy feeling when you say something like "pwede makipag-text mate" to a person you don't even know. But an assignment is an assignment, 'di ba. that's life sa buhay estudyante. *char lang! >:)) )

Althea Astrid said...

SI niza nagkakalat ng lagim=))
Anyway haha fred feel ko lagi ginakarir mo yang kaklase ni nica. As in like, parang Ilove lyf mo sha bigla=))
The way you text fred. You don't sound like the Fred I know. TSARRRR! :))
Anyway, nice one. Jamming kay ka! Hahahaha

Yours Truly said...

astig fred. hahaha...shy type ka gale!. aahahha. trying hard mag-ilonngo.=)

blognifred said...

knizza; nga naman,assighnment lang yun uie.

thea: hindi ko xa gna lovlyf uie!!!! pataka!

cai: cani!